Therapists Archives - North American Mental Health Services https://namhs.com/tag/therapists/ Mental Healthcare Thu, 10 Apr 2025 17:26:02 +0000 en hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=7.0 https://namhs.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/09/cropped-NAMHS-favicon-32x32.png Therapists Archives - North American Mental Health Services https://namhs.com/tag/therapists/ 32 32 New Mental Health Clinic Opens in Red Bluff https://namhs.com/mental-health-clinic-red-bluff/ Mon, 30 Sep 2024 03:56:10 +0000 https://namhs.com/?p=16693 Our new mental health facility opened its doors in downtown Red Bluff in September, providing much-needed mental health services to the community. North American Mental Health Services (NAMHS) expanded its reach with the launch of our seventh location, and our first primary clinic in Red Bluff. This Red Bluff clinic offers a comprehensive range of…

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Our new mental health facility opened its doors in downtown Red Bluff in September, providing much-needed mental health services to the community. North American Mental Health Services (NAMHS) expanded its reach with the launch of our seventh location, and our first primary clinic in Red Bluff.

This Red Bluff clinic offers a comprehensive range of services, including:

  1. Medication Management
  2. Talk Therapy
  3. Counseling
  4. Substance Abuse Programs (CDOP)

Blake Mayfield of Action News Now reported, “North American Mental Health Services has been serving Northern California since 2011, and currently provides care to over 10,000 people each month.” The new Red Bluff facility is part of NAMHS’s continued mission to make mental health services more accessible to communities in need.

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A Convenient Location to Serve the Community

The clinic is conveniently located in the Riverside Plaza Shopping Center, near bus stops and local amenities like Dollar Tree, making it easier for underserved communities to access the care they need. NAMHS is focused on serving patients who are part of the Medi-Cal and Medicare programs, and also offers services for those with Partnership Health Plan insurance. Additionally, the clinic is working to expand its coverage to include private insurance.

Culturally Competent Care

Understanding the diverse needs of the Red Bluff community, the clinic will also have bilingual staff available to support Spanish-speaking patients, ensuring that language barriers don’t stand in the way of receiving quality care. The new facility will have four providers on staff, including a marriage counselor and behavioral health specialists, all dedicated to bringing hope and healing to the community.

“We know that there are many people who have previously seen members of our team, and we’re excited to bring back familiar faces to serve the community in new capacities,” NAMHS COO Kristen Lembcke said.

Grand Opening Event

The clinic had a soft opening on September 16th, with the grand opening and ribbon-cutting ceremony scheduled for October 10th, 2024, from 11:00 AM to 2:00 PM. This event will provide an opportunity for the community to tour the new facility, meet the providers, and learn more about the services offered.

Changing Lives to Change the Future

As NAMHS expands, the goal remains the same: to provide accessible, compassionate mental health care to the communities we serve. “We want this to be another access point that really meets the needs of the area, bringing healing and hope. We’re changing lives to change the future,” Lembcke stated.

For those in Red Bluff and the surrounding areas, this new clinic offers a critical resource for mental health support. Whether you are struggling with anxiety, depression, PTSD, or substance abuse, NAMHS is here to help.

Location:
420 S Main Street, Red Bluff, CA 96080

Phone: 530-999-2014

For more information or to schedule an appointment, please contact NAMHS:

PHONE: 1.888.292.8080 | FAX: 530.722.4544 | EMAIL: APPOINTMENT@NAMHS.COM

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Accessible Mental Health Care at Lassen Indian Health! https://namhs.com/lassen-indian-health/ Mon, 15 Jan 2024 22:23:22 +0000 https://namhs.com/?p=15934 The post Accessible Mental Health Care at Lassen Indian Health! appeared first on North American Mental Health Services.

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At NAMHS we believe that everyone deserves access to high-quality mental health care. You don’t have to be a tribal member to benefit from psych services with our native partner Lassen Indian Health Center.

We are excited to announce that our psychiatry and medication management services are open to all who have Medi-Cal, Medicare, and Partnership HealthPlan of California.

Why Choose Our Mental Health Services?

✨ Inclusive Care: Our clinics are committed to providing inclusive mental health services, breaking down barriers to access. You’re welcome here.

✨ Experienced NAMHS Providers: Our team includes skilled and compassionate National American Mental Health Services (NAMHS) providers who specialize in Psychiatry and Medication Management. Your well-being is our priority.

✨ Convenient Locations: With a local clinic in Susanville, we are conveniently located to serve the communities in and around this area. Accessible mental health care is now closer than ever.

Services We Offer:

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🧠 Psychiatry Services: Our experienced mental health professionals are here to help you navigate and manage various mental health conditions, offering personalized treatment plans tailored to your needs.

💊 Medication Management: Our providers are well-versed in the latest advancements in psychiatric medications. We work collaboratively with you to find the most effective and suitable treatment options.

Insurance Accepted:

🔵 Medi-Cal: Ensuring comprehensive coverage for eligible individuals.

🔵 Medicare: Providing accessible mental health care for seniors.

🔵 Partnership HealthPlan of California: Making quality mental health services available to our community members.

How to Schedule an Appointment:

Getting started on your mental health journey is simple. To schedule an appointment with our NAMHS providers at Lassen Indian Health in Susanville, contact them directly.

📞 Call Lassen Indian Center: (530) 257-2542

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Your Mental Health Matters. At NAMHS We are Changing Lives to Change the Future.

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NAMHS Salinas Ribbon Cutting Ceremony https://namhs.com/namhs-salinas-ribbon-cutting-ceremony/ Thu, 11 Jan 2024 22:33:04 +0000 https://namhs.com/?p=15925 The post NAMHS Salinas Ribbon Cutting Ceremony appeared first on North American Mental Health Services.

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Mental Health Support, Therapists in Salinas

When: Thursday, January 25, 2024, 5:00 PM-6:30 PM,

Where: 450 Lincoln Ave, Suite 101, Salinas

North American Mental Health Services is excited to announce our newest location supporting the Monterey Peninsula, in Salinas. NAMHS is a full-service Behavioral Health Clinic located in the heart of Salinas, offering a highly skilled team of mental health experts, including psychiatrists and therapists, dedicated to mental and behavioral wellness, with onsite and tele-health service options.

NAMHS Salinas strives to support and promote access to the Salinas community by providing personalized treatment plans catered to an individual’s whole wellbeing. We are committed to welcoming all and understanding that mental health is not a destination, but a journey. Please join us in celebration of our ribbon cutting ceremony. We are excited to have you meet the team, tour our facility, and learn more about our services.

NAMHS has mental health centers in Redding, Eureka, Fairfield, Monterey, Salinas, Red Bluff and Hollister as well as online therapy care.

Mental Health Support, Therapists in Salinas
Mental Health Support, Therapists in Salinas

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A New Chapter and a New Look for NAMHS https://namhs.com/namhs-rebranding/ Tue, 07 Nov 2023 23:56:47 +0000 https://namhs.com/?p=15757 The post A New Chapter and a New Look for NAMHS appeared first on North American Mental Health Services.

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NAMHS has launched a full-scale rebrand. The executive team initiated the rebrand to provide a refreshing new look to reflect the new life within our growing and evolving company.

Haylee Ward, NAMHS Communication & Design Specialist, created the logos to better communicate what we do, who we are, and what our mission is in this new stage of the organization.

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The North American Mental Health Services “mark,” which refers to the NA focal point of each of the three logos and is composed of three parallel, double line pillars.

Logo Exposition

The North American Mental Health Services “mark” refers to the NA focal point in each of the three logos and is composed of three parallel, double line pillars. To unify the three NAMHS divisions, our new logos connect through one harmonious symbol. Each pillar represents a company: North American Mental Health Services, Native American Mental Health Services, and Homepsych.

The NA is a reflective shape to show the goal of reflective care in all our clinics and with each patient: the competent care our providers deliver is based on the specific needs of our patients. Layered into the “mark,” two inner lines of the outer pillars are a slightly different shade of orange. This intentional design is symbolic of our two main service offerings— therapy and medication management — that are the pillar of our practice.

The composition of the complete logo was done with specific intention to highlight our mission. The primary logo places the “mark” on top of “Mental Health Services” underscoring mental health services as our company’s foundation. NAMHS was created to support the need for mental health services within the underserved communities we reach.

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The mark pointing up towards “North American” of the Primary Logo is to direct our patients to the solution for mental health needs

The primary logo also places “North American” centered on top of the “mark,” with the center of the mark pointing up towards “North American” to direct our patients to the solution for mental health needs: NAMHS.

The NA “mark” is repeated within the logo of each of the three companies we operate services through (North American, Native American and HomePsych) to create a cohesive look across the board and highlight their relationship. The Main differentiating factor lies in what we refer to as the finishing embellishments that complete each of the logos. The finishing embellishments  along with a specific primary color inclusion are unique differentiators.

The embellishments—the head silhouette, the feather, and the window— depict the key service element of each respective company’s work.
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North American: The Head Silhouette

Featuring an upturned silhouette, the North American Mental Health Services logo depicts a patient, looking forward and slightly up towards the future. As our mission states: At NAMHS, we are “changing lives to change the future.”

Native American: The Feather

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The Native American Mental Health Services logo is symbolic of the native communities that we serve. Our Native American Mental Health Services mission is to provide mental health care that leads to health and wellness for the individual, home, community and nations. The feather itself is embedded with powerful symbolism, and here the angle is intended to mimic forward movement on one’s healing journey.

HomePsych: The Window

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The window in the Homepsych logo has a dual stylistic role. First, it plays a part in making the logo’s big “A” a house from where a patient can receive care. The window also creates an abstract depiction of 2 people conversing: a patient and a virtual provider on a computer screen.

The Future of NAMHS

We believe this new look embodies NAMHS’ growth and evolution. We are looking forward to what the future holds for our company and for the patients we serve.

About NAMHS

North American Mental Health Services provides in-office therapy and medication management from offices in Redding, Eureka, Fairfield, Woodland, Monterey and Salinas. Native American Mental Health Services provides mental health services to native communities throughout California. HomePsych provides therapy and medication management entirely online to an expanding patient-base across California.

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Opening Fall 2023! New Mental Health Center At NAMHS, Salinas https://namhs.com/new-mental-health-center-salinas/ Thu, 31 Aug 2023 20:21:12 +0000 https://namhs.com/?p=15315 The post Opening Fall 2023! New Mental Health Center At NAMHS, Salinas appeared first on North American Mental Health Services.

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North American Health Services is excited to announce that we are opening a new mental health center in Salinas, California.

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North American Mental Health Services, Salinas is slated to open to the public in fall 2023 at 450 Lincoln Ave Suite 101 Salinas, CA 93901.

Our newest behavioral health center in Salinas will provide the same high-quality mental health care as our current locations in Redding, Eureka, Fairfield, Monterey, Salinas, Red Bluff and Hollister. Our Salinas mental health facility will house psychiatrists, therapists, Physician Assistants, and Nurse Practitioners as well as office and support staff.

Patients will also be able to access medication management and therapy online through HomePsych, a division of NAMHS dedicated to online psych services.

NAMHS is currently hiring therapists and psych-certified NPs and PAs in Salinas. Learn about the mental health job openings on our website.

We look forward to sharing photos of our mental health professionals as well as the new facility.

North American Mental Health Services, Salinas is slated to open to the public in fall 2023 at 450 Lincoln Ave Suite 101 Salinas, CA 93901.

North American Mental Health Center In Salinas

Feeling better starts with having the right person to listen

If you’re looking to work with a psychiatrist or therapist and are living in Salinas or another of our service areas, we welcome you at NAMHS. Contact our office to start your journey towards well-being.

About North American Mental Health Services

North American Mental Health Services was founded in 2011. Today we have over 150 employees who serve patients in our expanding behavioral health clinics throughout California.

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Mental Illness Stigmas https://namhs.com/mental-illness-stigmas/ Thu, 22 Jun 2023 23:54:53 +0000 https://namhs.com/?p=15144 3 Types of Mental Illness Stigmas and how Therapy can Help What is a mental illness stigma? The word stigma refers to a trait that elicits social disapproval. Stigmas are often assigned to people with mental illness and can also affect people who break any kind of taboo (American Psychological Association). Certain illnesses that have…

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3 Types of Mental Illness Stigmas and how Therapy can Help

What is a mental illness stigma? The word stigma refers to a trait that elicits social disapproval. Stigmas are often assigned to people with mental illness and can also affect people who break any kind of taboo (American Psychological Association).

Certain illnesses that have a negative perception, or stigma, attached to them, can make people feel especially isolated and excluded from the people who do not manifest that stigma. A stigmatized illness like schizophrenia, for example, is more likely to be met with judgment, distancing, and social isolation, than an illness such as cancer.

Here are three types of stigma and ways that they impact people who experience mental illness. We also explain key ideas for people who want to challenge stigmas and work toward a more understanding, compassionate world.

1. Public Stigma Occurs When People View a Trait or Disease as “Bad” or “Wrong”

Types of Mental Illness Stigmas and how Therapy can Help
Mental health stigmas can affect self-worth and how people see themselves.

Public stigmas manifest when groups of people believe that some traits are more desirable or “normal” than other traits. Because some stigmas are visible, such as having a visible disability, many people who have stigmas need to negotiate an ableist world that directly and indirectly challenges their worth. There are stigmas against people with mental health conditions, although that is slowly changing.

Erving Goffman conveys the social ramifications of stigma in his 1986 classic, Stigma: Notes on the Management of Spoiled Identity. Goffman’s sociological review of stigmas explores how public stigmas and stereotypes differ across cultures and throughout history.

Public stigmas can have harmful ramifications when they cause people to associate negative feelings and behaviors with an entire group of people, and then create policies to oppress that “othered” group. For example, if there is a public stigma for people struggling with drug addictions, and there is a stereotype of “drug addicts being bad or dangerous,” then city-wide officials who abide by those beliefs might be less likely to allocate funding for rehabilitation programs or transitional housing.

2. Self-stigma Can Happen When People with Stigmas Internalize Shame

Types of Mental Illness Stigmas and how Therapy can Help
The stigmas around mental illness can cause a harsh cycle of self-loathing for people who internalize the judgment.

There can be a harsh cycle of self-loathing for people who internalize the judgment they receive and in turn, blame themselves for their difference rather than question socially reinforced hierarchies.

You can recognize self-blame and shame when people make comments like, “I don’t deserve to get better” or “I am a burden to myself and society.” Rather than recognizing the complicated interplay of social and political spheres, people with self-stigmas are more likely to blame themselves.

Because of self-stigmas, people are more reluctant to ask for help, due to a myriad of reasons, including a possible belief that they don’t deserve different treatment from society.

3. Structural Stigmas Exist in the Policies that Marginalize People with Stigmas

Let’s focus on mental illness. Structural stigmas for mental illness can be seen when workplace policies discriminate against people for having a mental illness, but not against people for having a “body” illness. Both types of discrimination are not always legal, but they can happen in covert ways that are difficult to track.

Structural barriers can be embedded in healthcare policies, employment and income options, housing options, education systems, criminal justice policies, immigration policies, reproductive rights, and more. For example, many people with schizophrenia who are trying to secure a job or housing feel that they cannot disclose that information because they would “never be hired” on account of their illness–even if they manage their illness with therapy and psychiatry. People who have been incarcerated and have mental illness may face double discrimination for breaking two social taboos at once. Landing a job while having a stigmatized identity can be difficult.

Exploring Stigmas: Raising Awareness is the First Step

One way to expand your awareness of stigmas is to ask yourself any of the following questions. Note or record your thoughts and over time, as you learn more about public stigmas, self-stigmas, and structural stigmas, see how your answers adapt.

Questions that explore stigmas:

  • What do I define as a ‘normal’ body?
  • What counts as a ‘normal’ occupation for me?
  • What do I consider a ‘normal’ living situation?
  • What is a ‘normal’ problem to have or show in society?
  • Where did I absorb my ideas of “normal?”

People are most likely to empathize with people we can relate to, so try to not blame or judge yourself for whatever biases arise. Instead, ask where they may come from, these subtle messages that some lives matter more than others.

For example, if you feel more empathy toward a woman who lives in a house and is a teacher who is having a bad day, than, say, a woman without a house who has schizophrenia and is also having a bad day, you may want to ask–from a place of curiosity, not blame–why that is. Stigmas often relate to a bigger personal and social question: how do we decide who gets empathy? The book Misery and Company by Candace Clark offers more insight around this complicated question and its real-life ramifications.

More Ways to Learn about Stigmas

Types of Mental Illness Stigmas and how Therapy can Help
Mental health stigmas often relate to a bigger personal and social question: how do we decide who gets empathy?

Remember that stigmas change over time. For example, in the 1950s, people who went to therapy risked being stigmatized. Now, social norms have shifted so that among some cultures, it’s seen as an asset if you prioritize your mental health and have a therapist for added support.

Here are three additional ways you can take your knowledge of stigmas to the next level.

  1. Host a book club with Erving Goffman’s sociology book, Stigma: Notes on the Management of Spoiled Identity. Gather to discuss how your idea of stigmas has changed after reading this book, if applicable.
  2. Ask yourself if you have ever felt the impact of a public, self, or structural stigma. Write your personal story down and if you feel safe, share your story with a friend, colleague, therapist, or someone you know. One way of reducing the harm of stigmas is to talk openly about how stigmas have personally impacted our life; of course, this also puts the burden of change on the person already impacted by the stigma, which is not ideal.
  3. Call out stigmas when you see them, especially if the stigma does not directly target you. You can be a mental health ally when someone says a harmful comment at work, for example, that makes fun of people with mental illness. There are ways to handle this in a way that makes the person who made the comment feel open to learning, such as waiting for a private moment to pull them aside and tell them how the comment affected you.

Can Therapy Deepen My Awareness of Stigmas?

Therapy can help people assess the beliefs and values that inform how they live and how they value the people around them. Therapists and counselors can also help people gain tools for how to manage a stigmatized illness and have compassion for themselves, rather than internalized shame.

We encourage residents in Redding, Eureka, Fairfield, Monterey, Salinas, Red Bluff and Hollister to request an appointment to work with a NAMHS therapist in person or inquire about our online therapy care.

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Therapy Helps Individuals, Couples, and Families Thrive https://namhs.com/therapy-helps-individuals-couples-families/ Thu, 18 May 2023 00:03:35 +0000 https://namhs.com/therapy-helps-individuals-couples-families/ If you want to feel closer to your loved ones, your families, and yourself, therapy can help. Many people choose therapy when they are in the middle of a major life event or transition. This might be the death of a loved one, a mental health crisis, or a breakup. It’s great that people get…

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If you want to feel closer to your loved ones, your families, and yourself, therapy can help. Many people choose therapy when they are in the middle of a major life event or transition. This might be the death of a loved one, a mental health crisis, or a breakup.

It’s great that people get support when they need it, and you can also choose therapy when you’re doing fine.

In other words, everyone can benefit from heightened self-awareness, communal awareness, and communication skills. Maybe you or your family have habits you would like to change together. Maybe you want to improve your communication skills with coworkers or partners. Therapists can help.

Can Online Therapy Help Me with Communication?

Increased self-awareness and advanced communication skills help people navigate the easy and the hard parts of life. Online therapy gives people tools to practice self-care, set boundaries, communicate their needs, and prioritize healthy relationships.

Despite what the movies show, therapists do not only support people when they are in the depths of despair–although they can and do support people in crisis. Therapists also help people work toward their goals and practice breathing, mindfulness, and other stress management techniques.

Take the time to find the right therapist. Some therapists offer cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT). Others specialize in dialectical behavior therapy (DBT) or other approaches. Do a bit of research and find what works for you.

Therapy Near Me: How to Find a Therapist

At HomePsych, our  online therapists make online therapy easy and accessible. Request an appointmentto begin.

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Therapists vs. Counselors: What is the Difference?  https://namhs.com/therapists-vs-counselors/ Mon, 17 Apr 2023 18:56:07 +0000 https://namhs.com/therapist-vs-counselor/ Therapists and counselors (as well as online therapist and online counselors!) help people prioritize their mental health so they can lead fulfilling and balanced lives. People need support at different stages of life. Depending on the circumstances, therapists and counselors can offer professional guidance that helps change the way people approach challenges and uncertainty. As…

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Therapists and counselors (as well as online therapist and online counselors!) help people prioritize their mental health so they can lead fulfilling and balanced lives. People need support at different stages of life. Depending on the circumstances, therapists and counselors can offer professional guidance that helps change the way people approach challenges and uncertainty.

As you explore your options for mental healthcare, make sure you understand the similarities and differences between therapists and counselors.

Therapists and Counselors Often Prioritize Talk Therapy

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Therapists and counselors both often prioritize talk therapy as part of a mental health treatment plan.

From general mental health guidance to specialized support for mental illness, therapists and counselors may offer talk therapy as part of a treatment plan. People throughout the United States depend on talk therapy to achieve mental health goals.

To make your mental health a priority with clear direction, scheduling regular meetings with a professional can be a great first step. Since the pandemic, online talk therapy has helped more people access therapy at their convenience. Besides physically being in the same room as your therapist, online therapy also offers the same benefits as regular talk therapy.

Training and Licensing Differ for Therapists and Counselors

The details are confusing but here is the main point: training and licensing are different for therapists and counselors. Certifications and licenses vary per state. Research your state’s requirements; or if seeking online therapy, check the various state requirements of your potential therapist or counselor.

During an initial meeting, you can also ask therapists or counselors what their licensing and training entailed. As far as education requirements, counselors and therapists both hold master’s degrees. Keep in mind that vague titles like “life coach” are different and operate in an unregulated field.

Among licensed professionals, not all therapists will meet your needs, the same way that not all bosses or coworkers meet your needs. Keep looking until you find a match that feels right for you.

Take a Mental Health Step

Start feeling better today by working with a Redding, Eureka, Fairfield, Monterey, Salinas, Red Bluff and Hollister. Remember that teletherapy is an option that many people use as part of their mental healthcare.

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Self-Care is Not Selfish https://namhs.com/self-care-is-not-selfish/ Mon, 10 Apr 2023 23:55:34 +0000 https://namhs.com/self-care-is-not-selfish/ Self-Care Is Not Selfish: 3 Reasons To Embrace Therapy Self-care is the practice of tending to one’s daily needs. In therapy, many clients and therapists discuss self-care and explore strategies to prioritize it for one’s mental wellness. Many people reject self-care, not as a deliberate choice, but at a subconscious level based on low self-esteem,…

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Self-Care Is Not Selfish: 3 Reasons To Embrace Therapy

Self-care is the practice of tending to one’s daily needs. In therapy, many clients and therapists discuss self-care and explore strategies to prioritize it for one’s mental wellness.

Many people reject self-care, not as a deliberate choice, but at a subconscious level based on low self-esteem, self-worth, or unprocessed trauma. Therapy helps people recognize their internal roadblocks to self-care. If you want to feel empowered and more closely with your values, it might be time to find a therapist who supports you.

By taking care of yourself, you can also take better care of those you love. If you feel like you do not deserve self-care or that “self-care is selfish,” we hope this article offers a fresh perspective.

Self-Care Lesson from Therapy #1 – It’s Okay to Enforce Boundaries

Expressing boundaries is integral for self-care. Establishing a boundary is not the hardest part of this process; enforcing the boundary is. One reason for this is that sometimes, people may  make you feel bad for setting a boundary, especially if they are not used to you doing that. They will adjust with time, especially if they are a mutually supportive friend, partner, etc., who values your wellbeing.

Chances are you have seen people express boundaries before. Has a relative ever said something like, “No phones at the table” or “No cursing in the house?” This type of boundary functions like a rule or “social norm” and they are often expressed by someone with authority, such as a parent or guardian. When you tell someone a boundary, you are communicating a rule that is important to you. If the power dynamic in the relationship is not equal, you may be met with resistance.

Maybe you have a friend who you enjoy spending time with, but if you spend too much time with them, you feel completely exhausted. It could be time to establish a “time boundary” with that person. Common questions about setting this type of boundary include, “How do I express a boundary without hurting my friend’s feelings?” or “Why do I feel guilty when I express a boundary?” Therapists offer guidance for questions like this, as the possible answers are worth exploring together.

Take a moment to consider where you could benefit from more boundaries, such as certain friendships, workplace dynamics, and family members.

Self-Care Lesson from Therapy #2 – Prioritize Healthy Relationships

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Self-care includes prioritizing the healthy relationships in your life.

Self-care is not only about the relationship with yourself, but also about the relationships you value around you. Each person has to manage how much time they devote to various relationships, including familial, romantic, platonic, and coworker relationships.

Do you have a friend who you wish you connected with more often? What stops you from initiating more hangouts with them? Some people feel that they do not deserve mutually supportive, platonic friendships. Other times, loving people devote their free time to someone who does not return any love and support.

Increased self-awareness and advanced communication skills help people navigate these more difficult conversations so that they can mend frayed dynamics and prioritize healthy relationships. Setting any type of goal requires accountability. Therapists can provide healing and hold you accountable too. They are there to listen and help you find hope.

Self-Care Lesson from Therapy #3 – You Are Allowed to Seek Joy

Lots of people need reminders that they are allowed to seek joy and feel loved. There are many reasons why different people have a hard time accepting self-love and joy, but a common factor is unprocessed trauma around abuse. Therapists can help survivors of abuse find and prioritize joy again, but it is important to find the right therapist.

When people experience domestic abuse, it can alter their beliefs about what they do and do not deserve. 30% of women and 25% of men experience intimate partner violence during their life; when this happens, it can make survivors anxious, depressed, and more.

If you are a survivor or if you are someone who has a hard time allowing yourself to seek joy, try to avoid blaming yourself and seek professional support from a licensed therapist. Remember that you deserve joy and love.

Therapy Near Me: How to Find a Therapist

Online therapy gives people tools to practice self-care, whether that means setting boundaries, prioritizing healthy relationships, or seeking joy.

At HomePsych, our online therapists make online therapy easy and accessible. Request an appointment to begin.

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Anxiety In New Relationships https://namhs.com/anxiety-in-new-relationships/ Thu, 06 Apr 2023 21:09:41 +0000 https://namhs.com/anxiety-in-new-relationships/ Anxiety in New Relationships is Normal: Therapy Can Help When new relationships emerge, many people experience excitement and increased anxiety. Some anxiety makes sense and may be unavoidable whether the relationship is platonic, romantic, or professional. But if uninhibited, fear can overtake joy. Therapy can help! Online therapy gives people tools to label passing thoughts…

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Anxiety in New Relationships is Normal: Therapy Can Help

When new relationships emerge, many people experience excitement and increased anxiety. Some anxiety makes sense and may be unavoidable whether the relationship is platonic, romantic, or professional. But if uninhibited, fear can overtake joy. Therapy can help!

Online therapy gives people tools to label passing thoughts and fears as transitory without letting the thoughts overwhelm them.

Here are a few tips to keep “new relationship anxiety” at bay.

Common Anxieties Many People Share in Relationships

It is vulnerable to share time, hobbies, and your body with someone new. It also hurts to be rejected. As a subcategory of fear, anxiety serves a purpose and “wants” you to take action and prevent harm.

Common anxieties in new relationships may stem from questions like, “Does this person enjoy spending time with me? Does this person like me? Does this person want to continue this connection? Are they attracted to me?” These questions are understandable.

Anxiety In New Relationships
While bonding with someone, it is common for new anxieties about that connection to arise.

It makes sense that while bonding with someone, people want to make sure the connection flows both ways. Some of the above questions do not warrant any action: they are passing thoughts that may diffuse with time. If these questions occasionally occur, you can disregard them. If these thoughts are frequent, you may be experiencing high anxiety.

High anxiety robs people of the present moment. It can cloud one’s mind with endless concerns and in extreme form, cause panic attacks. Having a therapist can help reduce anxiety and help you recognize thought biases.

With Anxiety, Some Thoughts Are Simply Not True

Every day, the human brain processes 70,000 thoughts using over 100 billion neurons. With these numbers, it makes sense that of these 70,000 thoughts, there will be occasional distorted thoughts. Distorted thought patterns obscure the truth and do not always serve the person producing the thought.

How do distorted thoughts relate to anxiety experienced in a new relationship? Here is one example: imagine a new romantic relationship between two people, one of whom does not respond to texts quickly. If one has cumulative experiences of rejection, the neutral observation of “this person is not responding within five minutes of my text” might morph into catastrophizing.

Catastrophizing is a common thought distortion where one imagines the worst-case scenario. Maybe while waiting for the text reply, the person with high anxiety assumes, “this person is no longer interested in me. I should end things before they do.” While the latter may not be true, if one starts to believe that thought, it will influence the course of the relationship.

Thinking “outside the box” can help when anxious thoughts happen. In this case, what are other reasons that person might not be texting back quickly?

Anxiety In New Relationships
Picturing anxious thoughts as clouds that float by can be a helpful exercise.

Mindfulness Activity for Anxiety: Picturing Thoughts as Clouds

Picture each thought as a cloud passing through your mind, carrying a statement. In the same way you might watch the clouds while lying on a field of grass, you can watch your thoughts float across your mind. In other words, do not accept every thought as a fact, just watch it move across your mind and diffuse into the air.

Remember that it is not possible that every thought–of the 70,000 thoughts per day–is based on objective truth. Thought distortions are biases that turn an observation into a perceived “truth” based on someone’s prior experiences and anxiety. Remember that it takes time to develop long-term trust in any new relationship.

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